Purge. It feels good.
Have you ever felt like your possessions are growing like weeds and choking the life out of you or your house? Have you ever looked at a pair of shoes and forgot that you owned them?
When I was in my twenties I had this though--What you love truly owns you. I don't want ANY possession to have a hold on me so strongly that it gets in the way of what is really important in life. I try to live by the motto that I will own nothing that I am not willing to give away (*not that I am perfect at this but I try to filter my possessions through that motto to see where my heart is).
I got a hold of a really awesome book called, "Organized Simplicity: The Clutter Free Approach to Simplified Living" . I have been slowly working through it and I have to say I am buying it as gifts for people! It has some great and practical tools on taking inventory of your life values and applying those values to your living space and each item that you own. (This book is a MUST read for moms--it has all kind of practical/organizational momming stuff that I would want to read if I had kids and I felt stressed out).
Today I started in on my closet--we had a large pile at the foot of our closet growing into what we called, "crap mountain". I filtered each item in the closet (and in the pile) through a couple of questions, "Do I love this?" and "Do I wear this?". My third filter was Travis, who got to tell me if he liked it--if he gave it a thumbs down it was an automatic garage sale item. We went through his clothes with the same system. Once in a while you will run into an item that you feel guilty for wanting to get rid of (most often a gift from someone you care about), I say if the item is not adding value to your life be thankful for that gift and then let it go. When my sister and I give each other gifts we always attach a guilt free clause to the item by saying, "When you are done with this, feel free to give it away."
After I was done carrying a large bag of clothes, shoes and socks out of my room--it felt awesome! *Here to making more room in our lives for people, meaningful experiences and a less stressful life.
Have you ever felt like your possessions are growing like weeds and choking the life out of you or your house? Have you ever looked at a pair of shoes and forgot that you owned them?
When I was in my twenties I had this though--What you love truly owns you. I don't want ANY possession to have a hold on me so strongly that it gets in the way of what is really important in life. I try to live by the motto that I will own nothing that I am not willing to give away (*not that I am perfect at this but I try to filter my possessions through that motto to see where my heart is).
I got a hold of a really awesome book called, "Organized Simplicity: The Clutter Free Approach to Simplified Living" . I have been slowly working through it and I have to say I am buying it as gifts for people! It has some great and practical tools on taking inventory of your life values and applying those values to your living space and each item that you own. (This book is a MUST read for moms--it has all kind of practical/organizational momming stuff that I would want to read if I had kids and I felt stressed out).
Today I started in on my closet--we had a large pile at the foot of our closet growing into what we called, "crap mountain". I filtered each item in the closet (and in the pile) through a couple of questions, "Do I love this?" and "Do I wear this?". My third filter was Travis, who got to tell me if he liked it--if he gave it a thumbs down it was an automatic garage sale item. We went through his clothes with the same system. Once in a while you will run into an item that you feel guilty for wanting to get rid of (most often a gift from someone you care about), I say if the item is not adding value to your life be thankful for that gift and then let it go. When my sister and I give each other gifts we always attach a guilt free clause to the item by saying, "When you are done with this, feel free to give it away."
After I was done carrying a large bag of clothes, shoes and socks out of my room--it felt awesome! *Here to making more room in our lives for people, meaningful experiences and a less stressful life.




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